How do I tell my new boyfriend that I have an STD?

by Rachel on June 19, 2011

I am dating a new guy and just found out I have an STD. I am certain it came from the ex-boyfriend. I have always used condoms with the new guy. I want my new guy to be aware and be treated because I don’t want us to pass it back and forth.

I just don’t know what to say to him. Any advice?

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

x June 19, 2011 at 7:54 pm

when you’re about to have sex and before hes about to go in you just say ” hey wait! uhh btw i have an std!!! you might want to go check yourself out, lets get it on!!!!”

Michelle *NICK J FAN* June 19, 2011 at 8:06 pm

just come out in the open about it.

super B June 19, 2011 at 8:20 pm

girl, be up front. The truth may hurt but just express how sorry you are

MilSpec007 June 19, 2011 at 8:28 pm

Well i know ist not easy but the best way to do this would to be just sit down with him the next time you’re alone take a couple deep breaths and tell him. The fact that you used condoms will help reduce the chances dramatically but they are not 100% effective, especially when used in correctly. When he goes to get tested make sure you go with him. It may not help him with the worry but it will at least show him that you care and that you’re will to stick with him. Good Luck and i hope everything turns out ok.

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