my friend is about to have sex with another friend who has an std… what should i do?

by Rachel on April 19, 2011

my other friend has hpv the human papilloma virus…. i know theres no cure but belen is about to have sex with randy tonight. what should i do? if i dont call belen right now, shes going to have wild sex with him and he has hpv…. if i dont thelll her, shes gonna be infected(more likely) so what should i do????

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anyone need some drilling April 19, 2011 at 8:26 pm

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s777s347 April 19, 2011 at 8:54 pm

If you care about her, you should warn her about the danger.

blue coconut April 19, 2011 at 9:51 pm

umm, why aren’t you telling her??? you’d rather hear her story of the wild time than prevent her from getting an std? a true friend would call her up and convince her not to do it

Jordyn's mommy April 19, 2011 at 9:55 pm

Tell her that he has hpv. But if she doesn’t listen just forget about it.. mind your own and let her f-up her life any way she chooses.. it’s her prob, not yours!

dottievan April 19, 2011 at 10:48 pm

Tell Belen, and pray you’re in time and that she will listen to you. I’m glad to see that you see the folly of this type of behavior.

kyah April 19, 2011 at 11:46 pm

well you should call her and warn her!!

Nancy April 20, 2011 at 12:15 am

Warn her. Tell her she will get the HPV if she has sex with him and will get warts where she rather wouldn’t. Even if he has no signs, she can still get the virus.

Or, insist upon her to bring condoms and force him to wear them.

If she insists on doing it and doesn’t believe you, it will be on her head when she develops warts later (it could be days or years).

smither12 April 20, 2011 at 12:43 am

tough call. well, since you know randy, make sure he uses protection. if that is not going to happen, you need to tell your girlfriend. you would not want your friend to be infected especially if you knew that the guy had hpv. it might be hard to live with your conscious should helen get infected. infection is a lifetime thing, randy might be angry with you but he’ll get over it.

CLICKHEREx April 20, 2011 at 12:47 am

Saying that you hope she is going to insist on a condom:”If it’s not on, IT”S not ON!” is one option, but you could also phone someone else, who could tell her (make sure you or they make a confirming phone call, so you know she has been warned!). Or grasp the bull by the horns and tell her that you heard he got HPV recently, but you swore not to say who told you (one of those completely justified little white lies – for emergency use only).

jessica p April 20, 2011 at 1:22 am

u better call her right NOW

capeal April 20, 2011 at 1:41 am

CALL their parents if they don’t listen to you. There ought to be a law that says people with STDs can’t have sex or they’ll go to jail. Since there’s not, do everything you can to get them to not have sex. If you can’t stop them, tell an adult who can stop them.

Kaylon L April 20, 2011 at 2:30 am

You KNOW the right thing to do. Get off the computer and make the call. Wouldn’t you want to know you were about to be infected with something……, yes, you know the answer to that to. Do the right thing because it’s the right thing to do!

Good Luck to you and your friend

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