What if you had sex with a person with an std but they didnt tell you?

by Rachel on July 24, 2011

I was dating a guy for a while and we had unprotected sex (I was taking birth control) but then we broke up and he told me I need to go to the doctor. He didnt say why. What do you do if the person knew they had an std but purposely withheld the information from you?

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Ellen July 24, 2011 at 7:58 pm

You go to the doctor and get tested. Hopefully he has been treated and is no longer passing along any diseases. Please note that you are responsible for your own body and you should have taken precautions to protect yourself. As far as…what to do about him? There isn’t anything you can do. How are you sure that he knew he had an STD before he told you. He might have just found out too. If you are old enough to be having sex then you are old enough to do the right thing. Shame on him if he knew and didn’t tell you but don’t waste energy on that. Make sure that you are healthy.

Tushar July 24, 2011 at 8:49 pm

well in that case there is a great possiblity that u got STD as well.
contact a doctor ASAP

mamma n July 24, 2011 at 9:03 pm

Or he was mad and wanted to freak you out! Just go get checked out and you will be ok. If he gave you HIV then you have a law suit but if it is not a life threatening condition then just get it treated and move on. Hope you are ok!

In the future protect yourself! You don’t want to risk your life and your future for some bonehead!

Peeriek July 24, 2011 at 9:48 pm

go to docs then proceed to hit him over n over n over i find violence to be the best answer in situations like that

unknown. July 24, 2011 at 10:41 pm

If you had sex with a person that wasn’t clean you really have nobody to blame but yourself. There’s a reason you DO NOT have sex, especially with no protection with another person unless you have gone with them to get tested and/or they’ve shown documented proof that they’re clean. Meaning they’ve shown you a doctor slip or something of that short.

There is NOTHING you can do to that person either but cuss them out. Birth control doesn’t mean crap either, TONS of women who were taking it right got pregnant off of it. I guess he was good enough to risk getting pregnant huh?

If he has a STD do the simple thing and get tested because more than likely you have it too.

Lily L July 24, 2011 at 11:29 pm

I did. That’s how I got HPV. But then, there was no way for the guy to have known I had it since there is no test for men.

Doc July 24, 2011 at 11:53 pm

First get tested, hopefully its nothing a strong dose of antibiotics wont fix. Make sure this is not something that needs to be reported to the CDC. Many STD’s fall under this category of must report an outbreak. Finally, if it is AIDS, this guy has become a criminal and in most states can be charged with attempted murder. Otherwise there is little you can do about this persons behavior except possibly mentioning to any x’s or present girlfriends that they might want to get checked. And there always thanking him for letting you know about the STD he pasted along to you WHENEVER you like. (maybe when he with his new girlfriend)

raj201 July 24, 2011 at 11:58 pm

Why, u get infected, thats what happens when you don’t use protection and sleep around

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